Bob Manthy, LPC
Owner & Facilitator • Niwot cohort
Fisher-certified Licensed Professional Counselor who has guided thousands to freedom and confidence, and he will be right there with you the whole way.
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When your relationship ends
Rebuilding Seminars
Boulder & Denver, Colorado • Since 1993
Feel Better • Move Forward
You're not broken. You're in one of the hardest transitions a person can face. This 10-week program gives you a structured path through it, a small group of people who understand, and a licensed counselor who's guided 3,000+ others to the other side.
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$1,099 early-bird (through July 24, 2026), then $1,200 • Pay in full or 3 equal interest-free payments • Small cohorts, limited seats
Heal and move forward in weeks, not years
Meet Your Facilitators 
Licensed counselors who lead each cohort
Each location is led by a different licensed, Rebuilding-trained counselor. Get to know them before you choose your cohort below.
Kathy Decker, MA, LPC
Facilitator • Denver & Cherry Creek cohort
Licensed counselor who took Rebuilding herself in 2014 and has warmly led the Denver area through it since 2016.
Enrollment Open
The 10-Week Rebuilding Seminar
$1,099 early-bird through July 24, 2026 • Pay in full or 3 equal interest-free payments
Niwot, CO
with Bob Manthy • Fall 2026
Join Fall 2026 Waitlist$1,099 early-bird
through July 24, 2026, then $1,200
Schedule a call with Bob →Cherry Creek, CO
with Kathy Decker • Fall 2026
Join Fall 2026 Waitlist$1,099 early-bird
through July 24, 2026, then $1,200
Schedule a call with Kathy →Serving Colorado since 1993 • See our 293 Google 5-star reviews
Bob Manthy, LPC • Rebuilding Seminars founder
Welcome from owner/facilitator Bob Manthy
Bob Manthy brings 20+ years of counseling experience to every room he enters.
Bob is a Licensed Professional Counselor, holds a Master of Science in Computer Science, and earned his MBA. Before turning fully to counseling, he spent years at Google, where he learned what it means to build systems that scale and how to recognize when human connection matters more than technology.
He has facilitated Rebuilding seminars in the Boulder and Denver area since 2006, guiding thousands of people through one of the most disorienting experiences a human being can face. His approach is warm, direct, and grounded in Fisher's research. He does not rush the process. He trusts it.
- Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), State of Colorado
- M.S. Computer Science • MBA
- Former Google engineer
- Fisher Rebuilding Seminar certified facilitator since 2006
- Boulder/Denver community leader, active civic ties
"Divorce is one of the most painful events a person can experience. My goal is to give you a safe, structured community where that pain becomes the material for growth, not just something you survive."
Bob Manthy, LPC The Process
How Rebuilding works
A structured, research-backed path from surviving to thriving. Each step is designed to meet you where you are.
1
Free 15-Minute Call
Talk with Bob directly. No sales pressure. He will answer your questions and together you will decide if this is the right fit.
2
Join a Small Cohort
Groups of 6 to 12 people, meeting weekly in Boulder, Denver, or Niwot. Small enough that everyone is heard.
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Rebuild Over 10 Weeks
Work through Fisher's 19 building blocks, from loneliness to freedom. You will leave with a clearer sense of who you are.
Hear From Graduates
Real stories, real people
Over 3,000 alumni. Here are two of them.
Sue
"This program meets you exactly where you are. Absolutely life-changing."
Maggie
"You may find yourself, that person you lost so many years ago. And that is freedom."
Google Reviews for Rebuilding Seminars
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Began Rebuilders a bit of skeptic and unsure what I was doing there. I'm so grateful I kept showing up. It has been a tremendous gift in navigating one of the more challenging periods of my life.
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Life changing in the best way during one of the worst times of my life. So grateful for Rebuilders!
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The Rebuilding program was so helpful. The class and community structure really allowed me to explore all my emotions in a safe and supportive environment. I have so much gratitude for Bob and the Volunteers.
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Rebuilders was incredibly supportive and informative, offering practical tools that helped me navigate a difficult transition with clarity and confidence, all with a community. Bob and all of the wonderful volunteers created a respectful, judgment-free space that made it easier to process emotions while learning healthy strategies for moving forward, rebuilding self-worth. It gave me the time and space to look within myself.
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Rebuilders was an amazing community. It helped me go through the difficult process of healing from my separation/divorce. It provided activities that made me feel part of a larger community and everyone was caring and supportive. I learned so much about myself and am ready for my next chapter. I would highly recommend this class.
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Feeling frightened and alone during the divorce process, Rebuilders was recommended to me. A beautiful way to pull myself up and move forward. This seminar is a safe environment to unload, understand and find self compassion, not to mention the community of amazing people that come to surround you!
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Synchronicity led me to this Rebuilding course, and I wasn't sure if it was the right thing for me because I was not divorced. My husband passed away six years ago. I will say it has been profound, looking at myself and digging in and really getting to the core of some of the things that are holding me back from being my most amazing self! I was quite surprised at the depth that the program leads you through. Making new seminar friendships of this kind of depth is priceless beyond words. If you are ready for a new life, I highly recommend this course!
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Great experience and would recommend to everyone experiencing divorce or loss! Best thing I have ever done for myself! Life changing!
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I almost don't recognize myself or my classmates (who are now lifelong friends) after ten short weeks! Rebuilding is hard, healing and absolutely transformative. Thank you to the 2 friends who recommended taking the seminar. You were right... working through feelings, emotions and patterns after a major life change like divorce is invaluable!
Questions
Frequently asked questions
Everything you need to know before reaching out.
Is this therapy or a support group?
It is neither. Rebuilding Seminars is a psychoeducational program based on Bruce Fisher's 40 years of research. It has the emotional depth of a support group and the curriculum rigor of a workshop. Many participants find it more immediately actionable than traditional therapy.
Do I have to be legally divorced to join?
No. The seminar is open to anyone who has experienced a significant relationship ending, including separation, long-term partnership dissolution, or divorce at any stage. Several of our graduates came years after their divorce. The program meets you wherever you are.
What is the time commitment?
Ten weekly sessions of approximately two hours each, plus optional reading in the Fisher workbook between sessions.
How is the price compared to alternatives?
Tuition is $1,099 early-bird (through July 24, 2026), then $1,200. Individual therapy in Boulder runs $150 to $250 per session. Ten sessions alone would cost $1,500 to $2,500, without the group dynamic, community, or curriculum. This seminar delivers all three. You can pay in full, or in 3 equal interest-free payments (early-bird 3 × $366.33; regular 3 × $400), and if money is tight, email Bob. We never want cost to be the reason someone doesn't heal.
Are the sessions in person or online?
All sessions are currently in person in the Boulder/Niwot area and the Denver metro area. The face-to-face community is a core part of what makes the seminar work.
What happens on the free 15-minute call?
Bob will introduce himself, answer your questions honestly, and give you a realistic picture of what the seminar looks like. He will not pressure you. Most people find the call itself clarifying.
Take the First Step
You don't have to figure this out alone.
A single 15-minute call costs you nothing. It might change everything. Book a time with Bob directly, no intake forms, no waiting rooms.
Book My Free Call with BobNo commitment required • Fall 2026 cohort • $1,099 early-bird through July 24, 2026, then $1,200